I was meant to go on a date last night with a guy who I have been talking to online, he cancelled a few hours before saying he has had to work. I have never met him before. We have been texting and talking for the past week. I dont know what to think now, he said hopefully we can reschedule. Do you think its genuine or that he is just not interested.
What kind of work does he do?
My beau constantly gets called in to work, and part of the reason that the two of us click so well is that I’m a serious homebody…so he gets called into work and I stay home and putz around my house. The other part of the reason we click so well is I am very understanding about the work schedule. He’s a fire fighter and keeps an odd schedule to say the least. He’s had trouble keeping a relationship going in the past because people can’t put up with the schedule.
He may have said, "Hopefully we can reschedule" because he thinks you might blow him off. It sounds genuine. Keep in contact. Try again.
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March 18th, 2010 at 6:42 am
i think he is not who he says he is. you never met him and now he cancels on a date? i dont know.
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March 18th, 2010 at 7:22 am
For now, make the assumption that it was genuine. For the next seven days, watch very closely. He may not be a fit, could be married, could actually be someone playing games, or worse.
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March 18th, 2010 at 7:37 am
What kind of work does he do?
My beau constantly gets called in to work, and part of the reason that the two of us click so well is that I’m a serious homebody…so he gets called into work and I stay home and putz around my house. The other part of the reason we click so well is I am very understanding about the work schedule. He’s a fire fighter and keeps an odd schedule to say the least. He’s had trouble keeping a relationship going in the past because people can’t put up with the schedule.
He may have said, "Hopefully we can reschedule" because he thinks you might blow him off. It sounds genuine. Keep in contact. Try again.
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March 18th, 2010 at 7:44 am
in cases like these.. the only possible answer is that may be he has some1 better to be with
i suggest u should not give it so much importance
if u can reschedule yr date.. go n hv a look
or just forget it
does it really matter??
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March 18th, 2010 at 8:32 am
for 1 its really dangerous to have an online relationship;online predators,and even if u think hes telling the truth its easy to lie about who u r. guys r so predictable that its hard to predicted them, he might of had work or he might be shy or or he just might not be ready
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March 18th, 2010 at 8:56 am
I have been in the situation to where I had to cancel a date 30 minutes before I had to be where I was supposed to be sometimes you get paged into work and you have to go. I would give him a second chance to go out if he comes up with another excuse then theres a problem he may be married, not who he says he is could be a number of things just be careful with dating from online its like forest says you never know what your gonna get
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